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Where can I find...?

Chinese decoration for my room. Please give me links. I'm looking for at least these stuff on the deco:

1.Black
2.Red
3.Gold
4.Dragons

Thanks!

A local China Town would a great place to visit but if you want to buy them online try a search engine and type in 'Chinese Decor'. I'm sure that you will find plenty of websites.

Micky Mouse

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Ten Tips For Anger Management

Most people have a problem with anger these days. Maybe it's because there are so many demands on us and our mind gets pulled in many directions on a daily basis making it difficult to keep a peaceful mind.

So what practical steps can we do to help us remain more in control of our mind and maintain more peace? Here are ten time-tested techniques for effective anger management:

1. Reverse the Feelings

This is a very interesting method that was discovered by Dr. Richard Bandler. It works on the fact that to experience feelings such as anger you will feel feelings moving in your body somewhere: Feelings are never static or stationary.

Begin by thinking of an occasion where you experienced anger.

A. Become aware of where those feelings are in your body. Where does the feeling start and where does it go?

B. Now take the feeling and push it out a couple of feet in front of you. (I know this sounds weird. Just act as if you can do it, because you can.)

C. Turn it inside out and spin it the other way and bring it back inside. If it helps, pretend you can do it and so it is!

D. Keep it spinning fast whilst imagining doing the thing that used to make you feel anger.

2. 'Micky Mouse' those Critical, Angry Voices!

A. Think of that internal voice you sometimes get that is overly critical of yourself and others. You know the one!

B. Listen to it go on and on as you change it into a cartoon voice. How does your reaction to it change by hearing it in the voice of Porky Pig? Silvester The Cat? Daffy Duck?

C. Try speeding the voice up or slowing it down.

D. Have fun with this.

Imagine several future situations that this critical voice may arise and imagine 'Micky Mouse-ing' the voice in that situation.

3. Positive intention?

A. Think of an occasion where you got angry.

B. Ask yourself, "What was the positive intention behind the anger?" And then ask, "and what was important about that?" Keep asking the question until you discover a genuine positive intention.

C. "In the future how can I express this intention in a better way?"

4. Disassociation

A. Remember an experience where you got a bit irritated.

B. Now disassociate so you can see yourself in the experience.

C. Push the picture further off into the distance. So you literally "get some distance from it," and have a new perspective!

D. Notice how you can now look at the experience more objectively and gain new understanding and insights. And what happens if you were to ask yourself, "What was the positive intention of myself and the other people involved?"

5. Double Disassociation

This is the same as the above technique with another added disassociation:

You imagine watching yourself watching that you in the situation.

You got to give this a go, it's really amazing, you can even reduce that most retched of emotions, jealousy, with this simple visualisation!

6. Patience for the Future

Just think any time we get angry it's due to a trigger or stimulus. There is a gap between the stimulus and our response. It's in this gap that we choose our response. Often though it happens quickly. Automatically.

We can 're-train' our minds to have a more appropriate response that will enable us to be more resourceful.

A. What's it like when you experience a feeling of patience? Remember a time that you patiently accepted what ever was happening. What did you see, what did you hear and how did that feel?

Notice how the feelings move.

B. Think of 3 future situations where it would be likely that you would experience annoyance or irritation.

C. What is it that you see or hear just before you know when to feel the agitation?

D. OK shake that feeling off and now remember the feeling of patience from step A

E. Now imagine taking this feeling of patience into those future situations.

How's that feel?

7. Reframing a Picture Literally

A. Remember an occasion where you got angry.

B. Disassociate: See your self in the picture.

C. Now put a frame around the picture.

How does your response to the situation change when you put a wooden frame around it? What about a metal frame? A multi-coloured frame. An oval frame? How about a colourful frame with balloons hanging from it?

8. Perceptual positions

It's always useful to gain other perspectives on things. More often than not, when we're angry we are stuck in one perceptual position.

A. Remember an experience where you were angry with someone.

B. Notice what you saw and heard and felt.

C. Now step into there shoes: Pretend to see through there eyes, hear through there ears and feel the feelings. Notice that you in front of you. What else can you discover and learn from this perspective?

D. Imagine stepping into a 'neutral observer.' So you can simply observe that you and the other person over there. What can you learn from this position?

E. Step back into 'you' again and notice what new learnings and insights you now have. Chances are good that you now have more understanding and empathy with the other person.

9. Collapsing Anchors

A. Select an angry feeling you want to change. As you feel it squeeze your finger and thumb on your left hand to anchor this state.

B. On an intensity scale of 0 to 10, where is this feeling?

C. Break state. Now think about what you would like to feel instead. What would make you remain in a more resourceful state? Relaxation? Humour? Etc.

D. Now choose one of the resourceful states you have come up with and remember a time you felt that resource strongly. What does this resourceful state feel like?

E. Remembering that resourceful state, anchor it to your right hand by squeezing your finger and thumb together. (If you want you can stack resources together by going to step 4 again and anchoring a different resource state.)

F. On an intensity scale of 0 to 10, where is this feeling? Important: Make sure that this resourceful feeling is more intense than the angry feeling.

G. Break state. Now squeeze your left hand finger and thumb anchor, hold it, at the same time as you squeeze the right hand finger and thumb anchor. Keep both anchors on for a few seconds, say 7 seconds. (Note: Many people get a sense when the anchors have 'collapsed' or integrated, often by a noticeable shift in breathing.)

H. Release the left hand anchor and just hold the right hand anchor for a couple of seconds.

I. Break state. Now think of the original fear you selected in step 1 and become aware of how it's changed!

10. Circus/Cartoon Movie Music

A. Think of a memory or a future situation where you want to lighten the mood.

B. Look at it like a movie so you can see yourself whilst hearing loud circus (or cartoon) music in the background.

C. Run the movie backwards, from the end, with the music playing loudly.

D. Now notice how your mood has lightened about the situation you choose in Step 1.

Why not do this on several memories and/or future events?

If you have applied some of the techniques, above, you will have re-programmed some of your 'bad habits' and can look forward to a more peaceful, anger managed future! And the great thing about many of these tools is that you can use them right away and experience effective results within minutes.

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Uae's Lady Achievers and Newsmakers

Arab societies have always been patriarchal in nature. The prevalence of strict Islam makes them male dominated in all walks of life. Despite the modern face lift of their infrastructure and economies they have had, most Arab countries are still adamant when it comes to providing their women with equal opportunities as men. For example, in a country like UAE, which has a high level of female education, the ratio of female participation in the workforce is still very low. As per the officially made available data, about 65% of the UAE's university students were females, but their participation in the country's workforce was only around 15%.

This might be about to change however, if the recent trends from media and various government resources had to be believed in. With a booming economy and increased job opportunities, the UAE government was trying out its best to empower their women with higher education and job placements. This has given rise to a sudden influx of the local women applying for jobs in various professions. One could see as a result, many young and confident Arab ladies taking up responsibilities on various fronts in the UAE today. From being radiologists to TV presenters or managing online ventures, the UAE's women are moving forward in all spheres gradually.

Like any other region of the Middle East, it's deemed highly inappropriate for the UAE’s women to speak up with strangers in public. All government owned universities have been made single-sex for this reason. With a bullish economy and a large expatriate workforce in their own backyard however, people are now trying to come out of their orthodox mindset. This has now allowed for the women to work with their male colleagues in places like Dubai. The local media proudly keeps on displaying the achievements of lady police officers, medicos, businesswomen and other similar working women.

Take the case of Fatma Mohamed Haj (21) for example, who had to face a stiff resistance from her family when she decided to be a radiologist. Her profession would have asked for touching male strangers and working late at nights. She won her argument by negotiating tactfully though, and is headed to get her first job very soon. Similarly, Nariman al-Rostamani (19), used to face taunting men in public, but it only grew her into confidence, and made her task as a TV presenter more interesting. There are many young women who still can't argue their cases with their families and therefore, may never get to have a public profile ever. However, the few like Fatma and Nariman are enough for creating a stir in the UAE's life and pushing forward with the empowerment agenda.

Amna Mazam is a student counselor who teaches working women about negotiating skills. It comes handy in getting family's nod for job placements. She confirms about the difficulties faced by the working women in the UAE, however feels positive about tomorrow at the same time. While many males do still not like the idea of working wives, there are some who might be willing to move ahead with time. An IT student, Fahad Qahtani (25), believes working wives can be a good idea for husbands as they won’t annoy by chattering about domestic issues. Jokes apart, Fahad's opinion does indicate about the changing times in the UAE, and the future ahead for its aspiring women.

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Pankaj Mohan is an India based freelance writer, who often writes on behalf of DubaiFurnishedApartments.com. Please visit this site to know more about apartments and hotels in Dubai, and the advantage of living privately as compared to that in Dubai hotels.

Vintage Military

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Factors to Consider When Buying a Vintage Prom Dress

A vintage prom dress is one that is a dress from the 1940, 1950 or 1960. The styles from these decades are very popular in formal gowns and help you create a really unique look for your prom night. There are some locations in the larger cities where you will be able to find such a gown, such as at thrift stores and stores that sell second-hand clothing. If the term second-hand clothing turns you off, then you want to buy a new prom dress, not a vintage one. Because the vintage dresses are from an earlier time, the only way you can buy one is by buying one that has been previously used. However there are many locations that have new dresses in the same designs.

Look through old pictures to find out what styles are available in this type of prom dress. You will find many different vintage styles to choose from when you shop online. There is one thing that you must keep in mind and that is the difference in sizing. The sizes of today are not the same as they were 50 years ago. A size 12 dress from back in the 1960 is probably a size 6 or 8 in today sizes. This is why you cannot look at the sizing tags to help you find the right vintage dress. Back in those days many women wore corsets to flatten their tummies so that they could fit into the dress and crinolines were very popular with some styles. These are other factors that you have to take into consideration when you are buying.

To start shopping for the perfect vintage dress, you have to take your body measurements. When you go to the store selling such dresses, bring the tape with you and measure the waist line of the dress.  Once you find one that does fit your measurements, you still have to try it on to make sure it does fit. You still may need to have alterations done to the dress to get a proper fit for you.

If you are looking for something more natural, try going back farther in time for dress styles. In the 1920 corsets and girdles were not in fashion so these dresses may fit you better. You will have to start your search early though because these dresses are hard to find. The dresses from the 1940 and 1950 were fitted in the bodice and waist line areas of the dress. The skirts were usually full so that if you have full hips, this would be the style that would suit your figure. Since bullet bras were in style during these decades, you may find that the bust of the dress is way too big for you even if the waist line is the right size. A good seamstress can easily make changes to this so that it fits you just right.

The length of the dress is also important. During the 1960 shorter dresses were the style, but there are some floor length ball gowns from that era that was made with stretchy fabric that will enhance your perfect figure. If you are looking for something a little later, such as in the 1970 and 1980, these are easier to find. You may even find something in your mother or grandmother closet that will look perfect on you and save you money in the process.

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Punk Women

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Fashion Trends for Women

Unlike previous year when womens wardrobe was full of elegant feminine and flattering contours outfits, this year women's outfits are proceeding towards honest and simple approach to dressing.

If you have not updated your wardrobe yet, it is the perfect time to start putting away the heavy, drab winter clothes and dress up yourself in light and bright colors. So what are you thinking for?

Themes for this summer:

Active sports wear, dancer's workout clothes are the inspiration behind Get Sporty collections. Marni's close-fitting jackets were teamed with cropped and stripped leggings.

The designers like Thakoon, Rodarte, and Alexander McQueen seems to be inspired with beauty of roses and peonies this summer. The romantic vision is blossomed with lots of structured dresses, tops and gowns.

Eighteen century's influence is coming back in 2007 with a punk feel. The feminine silhouette is getting larger with eminent volume and layers with a couture-like aristocratic and royal appeal.

Swingy shape dresses and skirts are comfortable to wear in summer. The inspiration came from Yves Saint Laurent's collection of 1958.

Golden and silver looks have gained importance in this season. This season group of fashion designers has not forgotten to use golden, pewter, and coppers colors in slinky dresses, coats, bags and shoes.

With some of these dresses in summer collection you need not wear jewelry as they come with embedded jewelry. Like, an outfit with jeweled neckline avoids the need to wear a necklace.

Colors: Summer has come up with light colors. White is key color of the season. Colors like grey, navy blue have been used to give glamorous look. Bright colors have come back with red-orange and fuchsia. Cool, neutrals will always find a place in your summer wardrobes.

Outfits:The baggy look dresses had been welcomed this season. I feel big, loose-fitting separates can be worn by both slim and slightly overweight women. You can put on perhaps a hat or chunky bracelet with your dress. This summer the length of blouses are little bit longer. It is an inch below navel and covers half of hips.

The black and white combination doesnt look contrast but it moved softer and transformed into shady grey and off white. How about trying the combination of white embroidery on black background or vice versa?

In these sunny days Boden Clothes black string bikini is funky and easy to wear. These simple sundresses are perfect for the soaring temperatures without sacrificing style and fashion. To accessorize your outfits, try an over-sized bag with lots of details or bold, bug-eyed sunglasses. These trendy extras are sure to make a fashion statement. So it is time for Womens Clothes to brush up your cabinet with some sporty, romantic, and sophisticated dresses. Have fun, be creative, and shine this season with these great outfits.

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